
My dad, Wesley Dunn, 77, was diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer in January 2007. He underwent a risky and highly invasive surgery called the Whipple Procedure (after the late Dr. Allen Whipple.) Thanks to the support, dedication and research of those who have battled pancreatic cancer in the past the Whipple is safer than ever before and can add years to a patient's life. But it is not a cure and only 4% of those who are diagnosed with Pancreatic Cancer survive five years. Having watched my dad battle this disease for almost two years, it is hard to believe he is one of the lucky ones, but the average life expectancy for those diagnosed with pancreatic cancer is only 6 to 9 months.
I can't imagine what its like to lose a parent or a loved one that quickly and am very grateful for the extra time our family has had together. Obviously those close to a person battling disease feel an overwhelming sense of powerlessness and we each try to cope and offer support in our own ways. This journey is my way of coping. It is a way for me to honor my father, do my small part to help fund pancreatic cancer research and hopefully make a few people smile along the way.
Ultimately Golf My Way Home is a celebration of life and if there is one lesson I've learned from hitchhiking across the country its that despite all of our apparent differences there is much more that unites us than divides us and we really can count on each other. It is true that I am an optimist and a dreamer so maybe I made it all the way across the continent - 125 rides and 6211 miles - on a wing and a prayer. But maybe there's a lesson in that too... the power of believing something is possible.
The journey itself is complete, but the project is just beginning. This website will continue to grow and remain a living document that hopefully succeeds in capturing some of the essence of what has been both a life changing and life affirming experience. In the spirit of the golf theme, the Videos and Writing are divided into 18 chapters that more or less chronologically follow the journey. The Caddie Yard is dedicated to those who literally "carried my bag" (picked me up) and includes individual descriptions of all of my rides as well as emails, pictures and stories from some of the very special ones.
As you can imagine, I spent MANY hours sitting by the side of the road and rather than let all that time go to waste, I decided about halfway across the continent to start running the camera while I waited. So if you want to know what its really like to hitchhike check out The Roadside Cafe.
I broke the trip down into a series of Maps so you can follow my exact route and I am in the process of writing reviews of each of the 37 Courses I played. I am also giving out Awards to the best golf course, coolest town, most interesting ride, most generous person, etc. And most importantly, if you would like to become a member and Donate to the Lustgarten Foundation for Pancreatic Cancer Research in my father's name, your name will be listed in the Golf My Way Home Membership with the amount of your donation. All donations are 100% tax deductible.
Thank you to all of you who have supported this project and welcome to those visiting for the first time. I hope you all continue to enjoy following Golf My Way Home - John
17 comments:
Good luck to you, John. I know your parents from church, and I think very highly of them both. I'll keep you, and them, in my prayers.
Mary Anne
PS How does one donate to your walk? I went to the website link but didn't see anything.
I wish you well in this adventure and admire you for your dedication in your dad's memory. It takes a lot of courage to do what you plan to do. But please, reconsider the hitchhiking portion of it. It's not a safe thing to do. There are many creepy people out there. You could find yourself being robbed or worse. Think of a bike trip perhaps or something else to trek your way home. But hitching is not the way to go. It's too unsafe.
Hi John,
My dad too passed away from pancreatic cancer. You are doing a great thing by raising awareness of this disease. I would have done anything to save my dad back in 1999. Thank you so much for taking time do think about the future during this emotional time for you.
You borrowed cardboard to make a hitch-hiking sign from my mom at a western store in Sedona. She and her friend just adored you and said I have to check out your website. I wish you the best of luck in this honorable journey!
John - Good luck to you on this journey! I am enjoying your blog and will keep you in my thoughts the whole way. Love to you and to your folks, Linda
HI John
Your Top of Mingus Mt.to
Jerome AZ pickup truck ride was
with Kathleen and Klayton.
Kathleen is the Town of Jerome Librarian and Klayton searches the Arctic,mapping the ocean floor.
Good Luck
K&K
Loved the interview with Real Golf Radio Saturday morning. Hangliding story was awesome.
So glad to see you made it to Madison. I'm honored to have been even a small part in your journey. Thanks for the great stories and eye-opening perspective. Nebraska may not have the most generous drivers, but despite your experience, you made no judgements of those you met at Wildhorse GC, where you made some spectacular connections. Travel safe, and Play well!
-Gary from Omaha
Hey John just gave you a ride to the airport, love what you are doing. I know you are a great guy and i just wanna say good luck with the rest of your journey, hope your dad has a good birthday and when you come back to Madison to continue, hit me up i will probibly be working but who knows. Keep it up man!
I hope I live long enough for the next update. Don't leave us hanging! Wish you and your Dad all the best!
John-
Glad to see the journey is moving along! I am so excited to watch what your doing! Keep it up....
walker
This is just super work (fun) you are doing and very important in bringing awareness of pancreatic cancer. I also pray for your father as well as the ultimate successful defeat of this horrible cancer.
It's my first visit here today and I look forward to sharing some of the fun you're having (except for getting rides in Nebraska!).
All the best John,
Mike Dailing
Carlsbad, Calif.
John,
What great and wonderful tribute.
If I wore hats, mine would be off to
you.
Jeri
Drummond Island, Mi
John,
What a great and wonderful tribute
If I wore a hat, it would be off you
Jeri
drummond Island Resort
John, Glad to hear from you. Hope your travels across Canada go well and quick because you will need to speak French when you get to Montreal. Best Wishes from all in St.Ignace,Mich. Tim,Irene and Jewel
hi john,
This blog is wonderful, I am glad you are putting all your experience to good. Please tell your mom and dad that I am thinking of them.
with love,
Cheryl Buckholdt Harter
(my husband sends his regards too)
john, its spencer - just heard from Charlie who turned me on to your blog.
very sorry to hear about your fathers illness. i think its great what you are doing here and hope we can catch up when you return.
Have only had a little time to read about your travels, but look forward to spending some more time on the site when i get home.
Gimme a shout when you are back..
(917) 215-3964.
Talk soon & safe travels.
-Spencer
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